Your College Picks: Be Realistic

1. Williams College
2. Amherst College
3. Wellesley College
4. Middlebury College
5. Swarthmore College
6. Bowdoin College
7. Carleton College
8. Pomona College
9. Claremont McKenna College
10. Davidson College

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The black hole of “prestige" (whatever that means) may be pulling you toward these stellar schools. But — and this is an important but — are any of these right for you?

Better said: Are any of these reachable for you? This is where idealism meets realism.

If you don't already know what you're up against with some of these schools, take a look at these fall 2015 overall acceptance rates:

– Stanford University 5%

– Columbia University 6%

– Harvard University 6%

– Princeton University 7%

– Yale University 7%

– Massachusetts Institute of Technology 8%

– University of Chicago 8%

– Brown University 9%

– California Institute of Technology 9%

– United States Naval Academy 9%

– Pomona College 10%

– United States Military Academy 10%

– University of Pennsylvania 10%

That's a baker's dozen of schools that offered a 10% (down to half that) chance for you to get in. Think of it this way: 95% of Stanford's applicants were denied admission, and only one in ten got into Penn, Pomona, and West Point. Do I have your attention now?

So, how do you approach the search for a sensible list of colleges?

My solution: Study the stats and trod the sod. “What the heck does thatmean, Dave?" you ask. Well, here's the key:

“Study the stats." — Look at all the data published by your “ideal" (as in top) colleges and make an objective estimate of your chances.

“Trod the sod." — Simple: Visit, walk around, take the tour, and speak with students there.

You probably can squeeze in a couple college visits now that students are back on campus. As I've said before, visiting a college while the student body is in residence is unquestionably the best time to visit. You'll feel the energy of the students, experience the atmosphere of a “live" college campus, and maybe even get to sit in on a class or two. Plus, don't forget those college tours where you get to see how accomplished some people can be at walking backward.

Okay, here's a dumb riddle: Why is college-candidate selection like a Christmas song?

The old favorite, “Santa Claus is Comin' to Town" has a lyric that says “He's makin' a list and checkin' it twice." When it comes to picking colleges to apply to, high schoolers need to make their list and check it twice. Maybe check it more than twice.

For you juniors who are considering a four-year college, now's the time to do some thinking. You may never have thought of yourself as a “consumer" about college matters. Perhaps to you, consumers are those people who buy laundry detergent and then give their opinion to some telephone survey person.

Not so fast. This is where informed decision making becomes crucial. In past comments here we have addressed the issue of money as a consideration for attending college. As you may have noted, money is only one of your considerations. Deal with it after you address some other important criteria.

When you ask yourself what you want from a college, don't be shy. What do you really want?

Do you want a school that has a beautiful campus in a secluded part of the country or one that is in the heart of a big city? Are the school's prestige and reputation important to you? Can you define what level of academics you prefer in your chosen area of concentration? How far from home do you want to be?

Will teaching assistants (TAs) instructing some of your classes satisfy you or do you want senior faculty teaching you? How about access to that faculty? Will your school have professors who are approachable in situations beyond office hours? How about student body size? How about the weather? Getting the picture here?

There are so many considerations. You are the one who should make the call, though. So what are you waiting for? Get out paper and pencil right now and write down what is truly in your heart about college. Even if you have never set foot on a college campus, you may have an ideal stored away in your dreams. Write it down (but be aware of the ideal vs. realclash). Over the coming weeks, keep adding to your list.

By Thanksgiving, you should have quite a detailed summary of what you want from a college. Then it will be up to you to find some matches for your candidate list that will form the nucleus for your college search. Your research should come from guide books, campus visits, and your own honest reactions.

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Bottom line: Informed research and college visits are the core to creating an optimum list of schools that will (should) receive your applications. You have over one calendar year to accomplish this task, so there's absolutely no need to panic.

The first place to start is College Confidential. There, you will find a huge number of resources and opinions (be careful about “opinions," though) that can be of valuable aid in the construction of your college list. Get your college process off on the right foot!

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